Happy Father's Day

I really should have thought ahead, and made a post for Father's Day
It is a nice gesture by your wife to make certain you are on your best behavior when the children come to visit...

far better than having to spank him after misbehaving
or maybe having to spank him at your mother's place when you visit your Dad today

and then making him stand in the corner while you all eat dinner
However, it might be your mother spanking him while you watch
 or it  might be your mother even joining in to help you spank him...
or maybe both your husband and your Dad have earned the right to be spanked together
However you celebrate the day... have fun

more spanking tumblr sites

Instead of highlighting just one in a posting, here is a little list of spanking sites you might like to visit...
has over 572 pages of spanking related pictures for your enjoyment

has recently started posting again, with 76 pages

so enjoy wherever your travels take you through the tumblr world.
another good way to stay motivated when exercising
your well spanked  bottom on display
handcuffs anyone

get upstairs

Just a few photos to whet the appetite

follow me

or is it simply follow me

Whatever the method, the outcome is a foregone certainty...

pegging with a smile

Well, since we have experienced pegging, we have also made love, without spanking. MAking love is wonderful, whether after spanking, or on it's own.
 We try to say exciting things at times while making love, and besides my saying how I appreciate being spanking by Cindy, and spanking Cindy when the opportunity or behavior warrants a spanking.
Cindy responded that she had enjoyed pegging, and wearing the cock.... WOW!!!
I can imagine we will try again in the near future (like in a month or so)
In  the mean time, you might like to visit the following site, which is the Best I have yet to find...

enjoy life, in all it's varieties

peggedforafemdom:  Don’t worry, I’ll be gentle ;) http://peggedforafemdom.tumblr.com

the benefits of a sore bottom

I have copied this from a blog entitled Four Red Cheeks, but this blog is now private by invitation only. I have added a couple of words in bold to the posting.

Please note the well thought out use of CBT: Corrective Bottom Treatment/Therapy.
The blogger DG_UK (darling girl living in the UK)

The benefits of a sore bottom

Some of the benefits of a well smacked bottom have long been understood..
the endorphin rush that is created by physical chastisement in particular.
However, I have long been struck by how getting a good spanking just seems to have all manner of therapeutic effects..as a reliever of stress, a blower away of cobwebs, a cleanser of the day-to-day crap, a creator of a "clean slate" free of guilt and so on...a girl(or man) who is spanked regularly just seems to be happier and lighter in her (his) life.

I wonder what medical science has to say about all this? And whether spanking should not be offered on the NHS as a cure-all for the nation's collective neuroses?:)

One other thing that a smacked bottom gives me, is the sensation of being cared for, and that I can admit that I get things wrong, I make mistakes, but that I can ask for support and help and guidance, and not be seen as weak, far from it.

I remember you saying once, darling, that I needed CBT..Corrective Bottom Treatment/Therapy. I know I need that regularly.
anon wrote: Corrective Bottom Treatment is used in our marriage. Both my wife and I have used spanking to clear the air quickly. properly administered a hairbrush can quickly convince the recipient not to repeat the misdoing.

********* very briefly: My thoughts:

The benefits for a relationship in solving problems by spanking, certainly far outweigh the soreness when your bottom is being spanked. This is easy to say while I am seated at a keyboard, and reasonably easy to say a few minutes or hours after the spanking. However, during the spanking, I many times wonder why I ever requested that Cindy spank me whenever she feels it will benefit our relationship.

However, this can only work if both partners accept this as a problem solving manner. The problem has been addressed, a spanking has been given, and unless the problem re-surfaces, then it should not be mentioned again as a problem. This can be a totally one way street, where only one is ever spanked, it does not need both people being spanked.

Last thought for a relationship: hopefully the SPANKER can learn to enjoy this problem solving method.

Personally, I always love photos of women smiling while they are spanking a man, and have now added smiling photos only of pegging situations.

Advice for the beginner contemplating Domestic discipline

I have copied this from a website, but changed the names and any identifiable information. ...

Hi. My name is Cynthia, and I have a few questions for everyone.

First of all, I have never done any spanking, and am not exactly sure how I feel about it. Are there women who got into it later in life with a partner that enjoyed the discipline? What were your feelings when this all began for you?

I have seen some pictures that look a bit disturbing to me, but I can somehow see getting the bottom warmed a bit. How much of a difference is there between a reasonable spank, and one that leaves welts, and bruises.

This does lead me to my other question. Do you know if there has been any problem with any reporting of such problems, especially if partners break up and they have been taking pictures along the way?

I would guess that many of you use contracts for just such cases, to be signed by both parties. I think this is a good idea. My partner has shown me such contracts. At this time I am not ready to do any signing.

I just want to see what my comfort level is. It does go against what I was brought up with, and have difficulty with the idea at times. I am willing to give this a try, as I know how much it means to my partner. Any advice, suggestions, or warnings would be of help.

************ One response:

Hello Cynthia, my name is Joanne, and I like you were introduced to this lifestyle, by my partner and husband David, hmmmmm my first reaction was to be completely honest I said something like *Are you crazy?*

I thought who in their right minds would want to be spanked, not me I don't do pain, I tried it a couple of times and saw how much David enjoyed it, I thought OK this is weird lol Then he wanted me to do discipline spanking, the more I thought about this I thought ok maybe this could work, he did need some discipline in his life.

That was almost 20 years ago. I have been doing discipline spanking since then. Sometimes he wishes he would have never mention this to me, but guess what TOO late now LOL.

I am not into leaving welts and I hate to leave bruises, but some people need or want that. Contracts are an excellent idea, David and I have one.

Start off slow and I am sure that your husband will help you with this. If you are not comfortable with giving hard spankings then go with your heart and do the best you can.
I am sure your husband will understand this.

Hope I helped you out some.

One other reply from a woman giving advice:

Its wonderful that you are willing to learn and to try this for yourself and your partner. As I mentioned before, allow this to come naturally and take from it what you feel benefits both of you. As you grow with experience and knowledge of the lifestyle and each other, you will find that DD can become a very normal aspect of your lives.

Always remember that it has a place and time and it is unrealistic to expect this to be a 24/7 sort of thing. Couples often spend so much time and effort into this and forget to connect on the more important things in life.

Why men enjoy this has always been an interesting topic of discussion just as it is for Us. I know that for Myself, I really, really enjoy this. I'm not just going through the motions. I'm not pretending.

I always welcome every female readers insight, especially how they were approached by their partner about Domestic Discipline, or how they initiated the discussion with their partner. What their initial thoughts were then, and what they are now, would greatly help any readers contemplating the lifestyle.I would like to know how many people visited professional spankers before broaching the topic with their partner, and how many no longer need to visit because their partner now deals with DD on their own.

real spankings creator's tumblr

Tumbling around the internet, brought this little gif to light. we have never used mouth soaping, but when you look at this gif, you can see it just might be effective, specially either before a spanking,or afterwards.
However, what is better than this gif, is that it provided me with a link to a site that I did not know existed....
"Discipline as an Art Form. I am the creator and producer of Realspankings.com & RealspankingsInstitute.com. For more than 15 years I have been producing original spanking content for the Internet. My content is highly featured on Tumblr, so I thought I would give it to you from the source."

I wish I had the foresight to have started an internet site like Micheal did. This site is chock full of photos and gifs from over the years

so if you enjoy seeing women

 being spanked
this is definitely the site to visit

The rationale for the wonderful Kailee baring her breasts
"School dress code policy requires that all girls wear a bra, failure to do so results in a hard 10 swat paddling from the Vice Principal."
here is another of Kailee's bare bottom during a spanking.